In Huaibei branch of Huishang bank, there is a couple who are born in the 90s. Rong Hao, husband, is in the Corporate Banking Department of the municipal branch, and his wife, Su Xin, is in the marketing department of Huaihai sub branch. The couple fight side by side in financial posts, and at the same time, they manage an ordinary and warm home. Their happiness lies in their dinner every day.
At 7:00 p.m. on October 10, Su Xin and Rong Hao's family and the old people of both sides sat around for dinner as usual, enjoying the family reunion. "It's the happiest time of the day when my parents and I cook meals every day and wait for my husband and my parents to come back from work." Su Xin said with a smile, his face brimming with satisfaction. In her life, three families get together every day because of the baby's birth, forming a big and happy family.
Although working in the same bank, the intersection of Su Xin and Rong Hao took place in April 2015. At the same time, they were transferred to Huaibei Duji sub branch of Huishang bank to serve as the customer manager, and Ronghao led Suxin to familiarize himself with the business in the way of "bringing the old with the new".
"In those six months, I handled business for clients in the lobby every morning. In the afternoon, I followed the" master "to run customers, write investigation reports and send materials. I'll give him a hand on what he's doing. We often work late at night, ordering takeout and working with other colleagues. " Su Xin said that in fact, he is only two years older than me, but he has a lot to learn from his work, especially his correct attitude.
Rong Hao treats every detail of his work and strives for perfection. But after work, Rong Hao is "very happy" in front of his familiar colleagues and friends. He is always amused by everyone.
"I didn't find out when I was together, but when I separated, I realized that he had quietly rooted in my heart." In January 2017, after su Xin was transferred to Huaihai sub branch as the customer manager, he really realized that he and Ronghao were interdependent and supportive. At this time, Rong Hao's confession came as scheduled. Both sides of the family have been recognized.
In Rong Hao's eyes, Su Xin has the only child's small willful, kind and sensible. In particular, after attending several gatherings of Su Xin's elders, brothers and sisters, the good family atmosphere strengthened Rong Hao's idea of joining the family and spending the rest of his life with Su Xin. "Su Xin's parents are particularly good at supporting their elders. They visit and take care of them every weekend. They are also very open-minded in educating Su Xin." Rong Hao admits that he is not a romantic person. From falling in love to now, every father's day and mother's day, Su Xin helps him buy gifts for his parents.
"This mother's day this year, my child bought me a mobile phone to teach me to play tremolo, for fear that I would be bored with my children at home." Su Xin's mother-in-law is not good at expressing herself. Since Su Xin had a child, she moved in with her wife to help take care of the children, and tried to make the couple work and have a good rest.
When people get along with each other, they will compare their hearts and exchange their hearts for each other. Su Xin's good, Rong Hao see in the eye, remember in the heart. He is willing to be the lubricant between his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and mediates the small friction in life in time. The elder always dotes on their grandchildren, such as whether they should help them when they fall down, whether they can watch cartoons for their eyes' health, and whether they should continue to hold them after they can walk. Su Xin always talks to Rong Hao in private every time. No matter whether the viewpoint is right or not, Rong Hao will find a chance to tell his parents that when Su Xin is in a good mood, he will analyze with her whether the concept of parenting is correct or not.
"It's all for the healthy growth of children, and also for the better family, the same goal, and the small incidents in the progress efforts are not major events. If we do a good job of mediation between the two sides, things will be over." Rong Hao told reporters that every time Su Xin got angry because of trivial matters, he would deliberately learn from her, and then perform what she would say next, eventually making Su Xin laugh. Living together is fate, not to discuss right and wrong, only tolerance and humility.
Just past the 11 holidays, coincided with the elders are not at home, left a couple to take care of just one and a half year old children. The new parents were flustered by the fever of their children. After working overtime, Rong Hao has been at home, nestling in the sofa with his children to watch "piggy page" cartoon. Seeing this scene, Su Xin felt warm and felt that he was looking for the right person.
After six years of acquaintance and two years of marriage, Su Xin felt that he had been hand in hand with Rong Hao for a long time. "After the combination of the three families, we have just got along well. I hope it can go on like this all the time, and be harmonious and sweet. " Su Xin said.
Reporter Wang Chen Chen, correspondent Zhang Zhengzheng
Photographer Feng Shufeng